Shopping for sex toys can feel overwhelming. With options like clitoral stimulators, rabbit vibrators and butt plugs to choose from, it can be difficult to know what to look for.
Look for adult toys made of non-porous materials, such as body-safe silicone, glass and metal. Also, look for a warranty.
Dildos
Dildos, which are often mistaken for penis-imitators come in many different shapes, sizes, and styles. Vixen Creations’ UR3 dildos and CyberSkin are popular dildos that have a dual-density material, which means they have a soft outer core and a firmer inner core. They are also easy to clean, and have veins that give them a realistic look.
Dildos are great for beginners, as they are inexpensive and easy-to-use. They can also be used to discover your own sexual preferences and increase satisfaction.
Using a dildo can boost self-pleasure by releasing endorphins, which are the body’s natural “feel-good” chemicals. The enjoyment of penetrative plays can also improve sleep and boost confidence.
Most dildos, like those made of silicone or glass, are designed to be easily cleanable. There are still dildos that are porous. These include Jelly Rubber, metals (like gold and stainless steel), or even dildos made of jelly rubber. However, these should only ever be used with a condom or for solo play.
Clit-suckers
Clit-suckers are designed for gentle suction to stimulate the clitoris. They can be used in several positions, but three easy ones for beginners include missionary, doggy style, and rider-on-top. It’s important that clit sucking toys are not brought too close to your clit. Our sex experts recommend starting with a distance and then increasing the intensity. It’s also essential to listen to your body, as each person’s sensitivity and pleasure levels vary.
The Svakom Pulse Pure is a great toy for clit-sucking newbies, as its soft suction and gentle pressure waves provide the perfect mix of pleasure. Its larger mouth accommodates a variety of anatomy, making it suitable for people with thicker clits. The toy is also ideal for edging (the process of approaching orgasm, stopping just short of it, then building back up again).
Womanizer Next is a great alternative. It offers the same suction power as other Womenizer products but with an internal arm to reach into your vagina. This toy is great for beginners because it allows you to independently control the air pulses and vacuum settings. The internal arm and clit vacuum can be operated separately, making it ideal for exploring different erogenous areas. You can now target both the G-spot and clitoral stimulation simultaneously.
Vibrators
A vibrator is used to stimulate different erogenous zones. It can also be attached to the cock ring to provide clitoral stimulation when sexually interacting. They are available in a wide range of styles and prices, from the inexpensive bullet vibe to the high-end clitoral sucker.
You should choose a vibe that makes you feel safe and comfortable, whether you are using it alone or in a relationship. When shopping online, read the reviews of other customers. Many of these reviews are extremely enthusiastic, and can be an excellent guide as to what works best for different users.
If you’re shopping in person, find a sex toy salesperson who you trust and are comfortable asking candid questions. Tell them what you’re looking for, and ask about cleaning and sanitizing. Most rubber dildos or vibrators should be washed every time they are used, but each product has its own instructions.
